One of the greatest challenges we face as a people is the misunderstanding that we must tend to the needs and suffering of those around us before we tend to our own. Often we are told to disregard our needs, to focus on others first, even exclusively. However, as I will talk about today, you are absolutely useless to anyone if you are not taking care of yourself first.
Read MoreHere’s something you might not know; your thoughts create your reality. Okay, if you’re here then you have listened to Zen Commuter and you know that already. But what does that have to do with calm? What we focus on grows, good or bad. if we think the world is horrible, our brains actively look for evidence to support that belief. Well, the same is true for seeing the world as beautiful. Watch where you spend your attention and see the world you create. Don’t like it? Change your thoughts.
Read MoreMany times, mostly when we are sad or lonely, we think things will never change. We think that the sorrow will remain forever. However, whether you are going through a good time or a tough one, it is certain that it will not remain the same. In challenging times this gives us hope that brighter times are ahead. In joyous times it is recommended to enjoy the moment, knowing that it too will cease. This seeming randomness, while on some level being cyclical, can bring about a wonderful sense of calm.
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